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Explain
where you are moving and why.
"Mommy got a promotion at work and we're moving to where her new office will
be." "Since Grandpa got sick, Grandma needs our help. We're moving to be closer
to them." "We need a bigger house and we've found a place that has what we
need."
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Highlight
benefits of the move that your kids can understand.
Explaining that you're moving to another town because the schools are better,
for example, isn't likely to have much meaning to younger children. But
pointing out that the new schools will have more activities, such as more
sports programs if your child likes sports or a band if your child plays an
instrument (or wants to), are reasons your kids can cheer.
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Use
maps and pictures to make the move more concrete.
If your children can understand maps, have one that shows your new community.
Together, locate where you will be living and places of interest around it. If
you are moving far, have a map that shows where you are now and where you're
going. Help them trace the distance and even plot out a route you might take
from here to there. If possible, have photographs of the community and your new
home.
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Reassure
them that their life won't change dramatically.
Point out the things that you know will be basically the same in their new home
and community, such as having a backyard to play in and going to preschool.
Explain that pets and favorite belongings will go with them. If there are
lessons or other activities your children enjoy now, assure them that you'll
find new instructors or programs for them.
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