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Tell your kids about the move as soon as possible.
It's natural to assume that the less time kids have to think about a move, the
easier it will be for them. Experts say it's the opposite. Children need time
to get used to the idea of moving. Don't put off telling them.
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Welcome their questions.
Openness will go a long way toward helping your kids feel comfortable with the
move. It's okay if you can't answer all their questions right now. What they
ask will give you an idea of how they're feeling—excited or uneasy. And some
questions may offer an ideal way to get them involved in the move process
immediately, such as suggesting they get online to investigate the new
community.
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Be positive about the move.
Your attitude will influence your children's. Dread the move and it will seem
dreadful to them too. Be enthusiastic and positive about the new experiences
and opportunities in store, and your children are more likely to feel the same
way.
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Let them know they can help with the move.
This is a good time to emphasize that this is a family event and everyone will
be part of planning, packing and perhaps choosing the new home. Hand out the
printable Moving Checklists to start
them thinking of things they can do and how to get ready for the move. Assure
them that their contributions will be valued.
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